Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Renewing Our American Dream after 9/11


A few months ago, Meriam Lobel from the Tribute World Trade Visitor Center called me to tell me about a new exhibit the museum was planning and asked if I’d like to be a part of it. To be honest, I didn’t even know that the Tribute Center existed. I’ve only been to Ground Zero a handful of times – and it was usually linked to the bike ride I did heading from there back to Boston. As I learned more about the museum and specifically about the new exhibit they had in mind, I was excited to be a part of it. The new exhibit, called Renewing Our American Dream after 9/11, shares the experiences of 12 people (clean-up workers, family members who lost loved ones, community leaders, educators, and students) in their own voices and images. For my part, they wanted me to share my story – why I decided to reach out to Afghan widows after Dave was killed.

The new exhibit opened on March 5th, and not longer after that, I had an opportunity to go to NYC for the weekend. I visited the Tribute WTC Visitor Center on a Friday afternoon and was shocked by how crowded it was! I suppose I forget how curious people are about the events surrounding the tragedy. Sometimes it feels so personal to me that I forget its affect on the rest of the world while other times it feels like 9/11 belongs to the world and has nothing to do with me and my family. Anyway, on that particular day, I felt a little overwhelmed by everything. I was visiting NYC with friends from high school and really did not want to be in a “9/11 place.” So, I basically kept my head down, ran downstairs to the exhibit where I was featured, looked around (the other people featured are amazing), and ran out. Out of the corner of my eye, I did see a part of a plane (I think it might have been from American Airlines Flight 11). I didn’t have the energy to go to that place but, at some point, when I can devote quality time to really take it all in, I know that I will go back.

If you’re interested in visiting the museum, it’s located at 120 Liberty Street (right across from Ground Zero). Their website is http://www.tributewtc.org/

I just found out they recently welcomed their one millionth visitor!

About the Tribute WTC Visitor Center
The Tribute WTC Visitor Center is located at 120 Liberty Street along the south side of the World Trade Center site. The center was created by the September 11th Families’ Association to share the personal stories of victims, survivors, rescue and recovery workers, volunteers, and residents of Lower Manhattan. By engaging visitors in the authentic experiences of those most affected by the events of February 26, 1993 and September 11, 2001, the center’s five galleries and its walking tour program convey the courage, loss, heroism, and grief of those who responded to the tragedy.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Summer Intern to Begin in May

Caitryn McCallum, a Junior at the University of Virginia, will join Beyond the 11th as a summer intern in the middle of May. We already have a list of projects we would like Caitryn to work on, including updating our website. Not only would we like a fresh new look, we are also hoping to reorganize the site and add some new sections. Caitryn will also be working on creating Beyond the 11th chapters on college campuses and will work with us on our next fundraising project.

This will be our first summer intern and we're excited to have her join our team.

Friday, March 13, 2009

Sahera and I are going to "video conference"...

Beth Murphy, who created the documentary Beyond Belief, is heading back to Afghanistan. While in Kabul, she has generously agreed to deliver a video message from me to Sahera, one of the women that I met in Kabul back in May of 2006.

Sahera is a beautiful woman, inside and out. Although I only spent an afternoon with her, I felt a real connection with her. Sahera's children are the same ages as my kids and I guess I was just able to see myself in her. The process of making the video to send to her was a bit rough. I cried a lot and had to do a few takes before I was coherent. It's been three years since we met and so much has happened in that time. I've gotten remarried and had a baby. I'm hopeful that Sahera has found happiness these past few years but I am fearful that providing for herself and for her children has been a struggle.

Beth arrives in Afghanistan in about a week. I can't wait to hear all about her trip - especially her visit with Sahera!

Welcome to the Beyond the 11th Blog

Hi,

I am very new to the blogging thing. I thought that it would be complicated to create a blog but apparently it only took a few clicks of the mouse to get this started.

My hope is that Iwill create posts every couple of weeks to make updates about what we're working on...

I want to post this message so that I can see what it looks like and then I will add a real post soon...

About Me

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My husband, David, was killed on September 11th. At the time, we had two small children and I was pregnant with our third. Learning about the plight of widows in Afghanistan, I felt that I needed to reach out to them the way so many had reached out to me and my family. Decades of conflict and strife ravaged Afghanistan, leaving tens of thousands of women without husbands to provide for them, a cultural necessity in Afghanistan. In the fall of 2003, I co-founded Beyond the 11th. Our mission is to help provide financial and emotional support to Afghan widows and their children and to give them hope for a better future. Beyond the 11th’s grants are geared toward programs that help widows gain the skills necessary to generate their own income. We believe strongly that this is the best way to create lasting social change.